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The new movie, "Dear John" - one part struck me in one of the commerical trailers... The girl says, "I'm not scared of you." The guy says to the girl, "You frighten me." What's the deal? Ever have a guy say that to you and what does it really mean? Is it a good or bad thing? Are they *men* just scared that they will get their heart wounded or something? (I think it would go both ways... that's the risk we take when we fall in love)
If any guys/gals could enlightening me that would be great?! I can't seem to find an answer. So I am posting it here. If anyone has some insight, fire away!
How young do you feel? Some say age 60 is the new 40? 50 is the new 30 and 40 is the new 20? What say you? How young do you feel and does your real age reveal the real you? I think yes, we are as young as we feel inside. It's just a number. I feel very young and maybe inexperienced in some things but that's the joy of learning and growing "older". I love learning! 
Ever settle for something less? Feeling as if you would never be presented with it anytime soon? So you settle for what you will get rather than if it's truely what you wanted and with whom you rather have? Would you really be satisfied? Maybe for a time or maybe it will the biggest mistake you might indeed make?
I was always told to never settle for anything less always seek the greatest reward possible. The one who would love you, fall all over you, do anything for you. Why do they(movies) paint the picture of a prince charming when there really is no such thing? Sounds beautiful but has anyone really experienced such a thing?
It must be wishful thinking? Right? Does anyone ever get what they really want? Do we settle for one that is sweet and a good but has some flaws that just bother you to know end? 
Do you move in with a guy just because you want to be living like others, with a guy, an apartment, dating, and so forth... who knows, it might be fun? But what if he isn't the one you secretly love...
I think some just rush into things because they don't want to be 'alone'. Want to be loved or have sex before they are ready? Are we really ever ready?
Why do we woman put so much effort into a relationship when men do very little? Why do we put up with it or allow it? Some say, the wife should keep in shape, be sexy and he won't stray. Well, that's obvious wrong to some degree. The recent news media had a field day with that, didn't they? It didn't matter what she looked like so is that a flaw with him or both?
Why don't men do more? Do more of the chasing than letting the woman do the chasing just so they(men) know you are interested... I'd rather have the guy do more that shows interests... then just waiting for the girl to do everything. Maybe it's just how we are wired. We are both different. Men and woman... thus why we still seek to understand each other.
I recently read an article I found interesting. It was about men prefer woman with less sex partners! Less the better. What are you thoughts ladies and gentlemen? Did that play a role in who you became or become involved with? I'll have to find my bookmark of the Web site for all to read shortly.
I was reading about why some people are shy men and woman. Trying to understand the reasons why some are and why some are not so shy around the opposite sex. Why some men have no trouble having a conversation with me while other men would be shy and not try even though their may be some interests.
Love shyness is a phrase created by psychologist Brian G. Gilmartin to describe a specific type of severe chronic shyness. According to his definition, published in Shyness & Love: Causes, Consequences, and Treatments (1987), love-shy people find it difficult if not impossible to be assertive in informal situations involving potential romantic or sexual partners. For example, a heterosexual love-shy male will have trouble initiating conversations with women because of strong feelings of anxiety. In his book, Gilmartin estimates that love-shyness afflicts approximately 1.5% of American males and will prevent about 1.7 million U.S. males from ever marrying or experiencing intimate sexual contact with women.
I was talking with a co-worker about men, sex and a whole sort of topics. One comment or statement she told me has been on my mind lately and I have wanted to blog about it but haven't until now. It was about being intimate with a man but where sex was not involved. Just enjoying each other. Either by hugging, cuddling or just being in their presence. Comforting and so forth.
She said that was the best kind intimacy if you can get that. It's more satisfying than having sex. That made me think of a friend of mine... I was like shit, she might have a point there now that I think about it. With just "being there" in the moment than going over the line and having sex where that leads to a lot more or nothing at all depending on the moving the relationship forward? And that's what I think older men are like more into being intimate, then say 20's wanting to sow their seed to ever girl they can. They are not looking for just sex but something more? Does this make sense? I think that is one attraction I have about older men. They desire something more than just having sex? What do you think everyone?? ~ Mel
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