I was talking with my friend L about oral sex. I've read article after article about how the majority of women have no clue how to pleasure a penis. Women will suck on the tip of his penis, deep throat the thing like a popsicle, suck on his balls until he screams (one of my favorites) or use her cheek to rub that penIs around. I know most women will say, yes I know, he never complains. Well ladies guess what, your wrong. Just like men will not tell you when the act is not up to par. If they communicate those feelings, they feel like you will never stick that thing in your mouth again. It's no different then us saying, oh that was great. When it was terrible. 61% of couples say the sex is below avg. That begs the question, what is avg? Unless you've had multiple partners how do you compare? I can say from my experiences, the sex does vary. I found very few males that one can keep up or two have a clue. Part of the reason why I prefer females. Don't get me wrong, I've been with females that are clueless. I find that even more amazing. A woman that pleasures herself knows her body better then anyone.
So, ladies do you think you pleasure your man? Orally? Ask him. Ask him to be honest. Ask him to tell you what he would rather have done. I bet you will be surprised. Provided you have a strong relationship.
I\'m with DB, good oral sex is an emotional thing. Just a blow job might feel nice but the act is somewhat removed, little pleasure. However, she absolutely loves pleasing me, she does it with such devotion that maybe the emotional part makes up for lack of innovative techniques if there is any. (Not complaining at all) I\'d rather feel the devotion and pleasure she feels giving than a mechanical job to get it done and over with.
I asked my boyfriend and he said I need no help in this area or any other. In the past I would ask what I could do to make it more pleasurable and he has would tell me. Like Sekmet, we are very open and honest about everything in our relationship. Good question though Pearl. ![\"\"](\"http://lovespace.loversguide.com/file/smile/tongue.gif\")
My Man, tells me I please him very much sexually, but I think the fact that we discuss all aspects of our relationship openley, and are honest with one another helps keep a relatoinship strong, our sex life is very fulfilling because we listen to one another, explore and learn and enjoy pleasing each other, Love Sekmetxxx
Interesting blog P - thanks!
I know - i know how to please my man! ![\"\"](\"http://lovespace.loversguide.com/file/smile/biggrin.gif\")
We have always spoken openly and honestly about what we like and do not like. We have taken the time to get to know each others body and even after 10 fantastic years we are still taking the time & learning.
Boston, thank you glad to be back. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
Yeah I agree, some women have no idea how to give a blow job. Though some are just fantastic. It is hard to describe what works best but for me start off slowly and very softly and just using the tip of the tongue works a treat. Same is when they are on top, I hate it whena girl leans back where her hands are on the bed near my feet. It is uncomfortable for me (bends the penis too much) and as such i do not get any stimulation from it. And at times when a girl is on top, I am afraid that it may slip out and my penis will hit her pubic bone which it hurts like hell and can lead to a broken penis. This has happen tyo me once in doogy position but fortunatley I did not brerak the penis.
Hi Pearl. Glad you are back - very much enjoy your comments. I know you asked for the ladies to comment here... but I will just say there is no question everyone is different. I had a girlfriend who was absolutely the best with oral - gets my blood flowing just thinking about her. She loved it - everything about it - and she would do all sorts of things... we lived a few hours apart and we\'d get together each weekend. And, like clockwork, when it was time for me to head home, she\'d give me an oral sendoff that would blow the roof off... WOW! My wife, on the other hand - who I love to no end and she is the mother of our 3 wonderful girls - only does oral a little during foreplay. She isn\'t \"in to it\". That I think is the key... if the girl really likes it and gets into it, they can learn all sorts of techniques to drive you wild.
Interesting post pearl. I can tell you that my wife does indeed know how to please me orally. She is actually very good at it. What is surprising though, is that before we were married, she had never been with anyone else. I\'m her first and only. We have both aggresively pursued information on how to please each other. Through videos, books etc. She has read several books on how to please a man orally. Including one humorously titled \'Tickle his Pickle\'. And likewise, I have also read several books on how to please her orally. I really enjoy reading those kinds of books and then trying out the things I read about on her. I do have a couple of things that I have found that drive her crazy. One can continue to learn. Keeps things interesting right?
Oral sex and do women really know how to pleasure i would tend to say yes because i do believe that knowing exactly to use the object of desire as you have described it as a popsicle then the taste sensation and oral gratification aspect will follow. Articles i have always regarded with scepticism not least because as with the net i have no real idea who has written it ?
