It has come to my attention that certain men on this site are behaving in a manner in flash chat that is totally unacceptable. I will not name names as those concerned know who they are. If it continues I will have to start naming these people however I do not want it to get it to that point. But rest assured I am not afraid to stand up to these imbiciles and I promise that unless the behaviour improves, I will do it.
There are men who have been on this site for a while now and they have not contributed at all to this site other than annoy the girls who visit flash chat, so my advice to these men is leave the site now or suffer the consequences.
But my ultimate tip is this. Start acting like adults, cut this shit out and above all GROW UP.
It is always the case that the minority stuff it up for the majority and unless all we stand up top these idiots they will drive the girls away from the site and the site will not be worth visting.
And for those men who are new to LG and go into flash chat, my advuce is this. Do not ask the girls lewd questions. Do not insult them by asking what they are wearing and their dimensions. Do not ask for them to post photos and to travel to meet you. Do not be just plain rude to them where in real life you would get a slap across the face because quite simply it is NOT funny. So my advice to you is this, chat to the girls on this site like you are chatting to your mother or sister and you then will be surprised by the pleasant response you may get.
Hi Tom, what a very well written post, you are our knight in armour, thankyou for your concern on this matter, to be fair most of the members on LG. are fantastic people but I agree with you we need to address such matters as this is a great site where we show respect for one another and I enjoy being on here with the odd exception, Love Sekmetxxx![\"\"](\"http://lovespace.loversguide.com/file/smile/emo/thumbup.gif\")
Hi Tom
Thanks for your post. I have had a certin guy doing the same things to me and it became very uncomfortable and I didnt like visiting LG if I knew they were online.
I know I really appreciate you making this point and standing up for the women on LG. You are a true gentleman Tom.
Men who are like this either need to leave LG or grow up!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It\'s a shame that this is still going on. I personally haven\'t used the flashchat in a great while. With such a burst of offensive behavior, it doesn\'t entice me to go back on it.
Great Blog Hornytom, i have had a few members that have treated me like a piece of \"meat\". I am very please that there are still true gentlemen who are on this site and who treat us woman like WOMAN!
It is sad that this has to be brought up so often, but like PEARL and NEWBEE i am tired of certain memebers who only want SEX talk and NUDE pictures.
Thanks Again ![\"\"](\"http://lovespace.loversguide.com/file/smile/tongue.gif\")
Dick,
I agree. Ignore them. No need to start a fight. Many of our member both men and women are immature. Just ignore them. Hopefully one day they will leave. If you don\'t play the \'games\" they will leave.
Your comments are VERY much appreciated. I for one have no problem handling those immature members. I guess I\'m one of the few.
Good post.
Tom, thanks for addressing this issue some woman are having on this site. It\'s VERY much appreciated! I totally agree. Some men really need to \"grow up\"![\"\"](\"http://lovespace.loversguide.com/file/smile/wink.gif\")
Tom,
I\'ve blogged about this very problem many times. I\'ve posted forum comments about this very issue. I\'ve been told to shut and mind my own business. I beg to differ when one of our members says the minority ruins it for everyone. It\'s not the minority. It\'s the majority. I for one can handle myself. I have concern for those women that are more shy or not willing to speak her mind.
Posting names will do nothing but give them the glory they are looking for. These spineless males have nothing better to do then to make remarks or ask things that are out of line. I would request you don\'t post names. I would ignore the men in question and they will soon go away.
I do applaud you for taking a stand on sticking up for the female gender. I for one can handle myself. If anyone wants a piece of me come get me. I\'m crank and willing to go a couple of rounds if I don\'t knock you out first!
Muah
Thank you Tom! I will leave Flashchat if there are certain members in there as well. No need for that kind of behavior at all.
Thanks!
Ex
Tom is so right. He and I both know who some of the men are and so please \'offenders\', stop now. I\'ve even seen it happen in my presence because the females concerned have sent me private messages telling me what\'s being said. I\'ve even seen it happen to one of the more \'senior\' female members which was a very silly move by the man concerned because the female member quickly reduced him to the status of \'silly immature little boy\'.
So, if you are a man who is lewd and offensive to the female members then STOP NOW because most of us will do anything to help keep this site a friendly and fun place to visit.
