Id like to get some advice from the ladies to pleasure my girlfriend. An orgams is for her very difficult to get. This is the first time that I cant give an woman an orgasm. How can I touch the right spots for her. What can i do different than we normaly do. She is not very open about sex.
io488 from Holland (sorry about mn terrible englisch)
I think you need to talk to her but do not confront her. Choose a time when you have plenty of time to discuss this matter and the setting when you are both in a good mood. Be understanding and hope that she understands your concerns. Good Luck.
Id like to get some advice from the ladies to pleasure my girlfriend. An orgams is for her very difficult to get. This is the first time that I cant give an woman an orgasm. How can I touch the right spots for her. What can i do different than we normaly do. She is not very open about sex.
io488 from Holland (sorry about mn terrible englisch)
Perhaps you could tell us what you normally do?
In my experience most women don't have orgsams through penetration, it's touch that's key and the clitoris that's the important part.
I've found that oral sex almost invariably leads to orgasms but some women aren't keen on that.
As Tom has said, I think you need to find the right time to ask her and then see where it leads. Hopefully she should recognise that you're trying to make your love life even better.
How true. Everyone is different
