Wants but never Gives
#1 September 30, 10:19 pm
Wants but never Gives

My partner wants oral sex but never wants to give me oral sex in return claiming I smell. I'm offended and am wondering what can I do besides extra cleaning (which I've done) and suggesting using plastic wrap (which I've done) Is my partner just an insensitive a**hole??

#2 October 1, 12:17 am

Maybe he doesn't know how?  Or fears you won't like what he does? 

Maybe eat some fruit??? I think what you eat seems to effect down there? Just what I read anyways...


#3 October 1, 2:24 am

There will always be some odor. Like LSZ said maybe he is scared you won't like how he does it. Or he may not feel comfortable performing oral from bad experience in the past.    You need to talk to him and let him know how you feel.  Just my thoughts on the matter.  Good luck! 

#4 October 2, 12:36 am

NewBee got it! its a 2 way street. We alwasy shower and there isno smell, nothing to hold back. Even for rimming, the same applies, very clean, nothing distrubing about it. DB once again hit the nail. I find oral sex not only very erotic and exciting, pleasing and satisfying, I find it a trully deep expression of afffection for my partner since you are giving her the most pleasure possible. If there is a smell, he can kindly tell you and I am sure you woul drun and wash yourself. Good luck girl.

#5 October 2, 1:43 am

I simply can't imagine not wanting to go down on my wife.  The taste is something that drives me wild.  I love her taste.  I can't get enough of it.  I sometimes go grab her during the day (I work at home) and take her by the hand and lead her to the bedroom.  I strip her bottoms off, lay her down and pleasure her.  She is very orgasmic and always cums.  I then pull her up and help her put her shorts back on.  And then I go back to work.  Well, sometimes I don't go back to work right away, but I don't expect reciprocation.  Love it when I get it, but don't expect it.  I've said this before and I'll say it again.  Even if she never went down on me, I would still get off on going down on her.  (Fortunately, she loves oral, both giving and receiving, and is very, very good at it.)

#6 October 3, 3:14 pm

Hey Hun

I agree with everyone else you need to talk to him and tell how it is making you feeling, every part of sex is to show each other afffection.

Having a guy go down on you is the best feeling and your giving him the pleasure of oral so he should being doing the same for you.

flounder

 

#7 October 21, 1:56 am

I am sorry but to imply that someone smells is to say the least unkind, we all have our own unique scent that is what makes us special, I personally have a bath or shower before letting my True love kiss and tease me orally, but as he says I am always clean and taste and smell great, so lets give your man the benefit of the doubt and say he words were hasty, he needs to learn about pleasing you and making you feel good, he needs to get with the idea of mutual pleasure, and should be willing to learn oral sex tecniques to please you, the lovers guide interactive covers oral sex very well buy him a copy, Love Sekmet xxx

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