sex toy problem
#1 November 2, 5:44 pm
sex toy problem
Basically this started a year ago. we were in bed havin fun and my girlfriend said "can i use my vibrator" i said yes and watched her then anxiety kicked in and starting to think that im not good enough. I acted normal then next day she asks the same n it sunk in and i had to say no, she tries to assure me but it doesn't work. but recently shes being asking me, but i dont want to deny her of that access. i went to friends for help but it doesn't work. I want to sort out my problem for her sake.
#2 November 4, 6:17 am

I could see where Austin is coming from. I personally would not want a girl missing out on pleasure. However it seems to me that after you have had sex with her that she wants to use her vibe and use it for everytime they have sex and this will dent most mens ego. If it will help, my suggestion to you Austin is use it during forplay and bring her to an orgasm before you have sex and have it that you use it on her and not she use it on herself.  That way you are in control and she may then be sensitive enough to orgasm with you inside her.

You must understand Austin that most women have trouble experiencing orgasm through intercourse and a good idea is to discuss with each other what you both need. Do not be afraid to open up with her and by communicating with each other you will both learn what works in your lovemaking.

#3 February 20, 2:44 pm

Hi AustinAzathoth, I hope you do not mind a woman opinion on your post, I own a vibrator and have never seen it as a substitute for a Mans penis, for several reasons here are a few intercourse is so good for us on all levels the physical closeness, caresses, kisses, stroaking and talking to one another, there is nothing finer in this world than the Man you love deep inside you holding you close, a vibrator is for fun togeather, or if a woman is alone say her man works away or is on nights, perhaps your woman is trying to stimulate her "G. Spot" and this can be done acurately with a vibrator{ I know lol} . try diffrent sex positions so she can have a G. Spot orgasm, also please try not to see the vibrator as a threat its not. Love Sekmet xxx

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