Try not to think of the vibrator a a manhood replacement; far from it.  Fair enough, in my case the role was reversed, I introduced the vibrator to my wife.  She was sceptical at first but realised how much of a turn on it was for me to see her pleasure herself.  The added bonus was that she now has me penetrate her as she uses it on her clit; mind blowing for me too.

My personal experience has been great, but it sounds as though you have quite a quandry on your hands.  Is it anything to do with the shape of the vibrator?  Or is it simply the fact that she is using one?  Personally, and this is only my opinion (so do with it as you will) she is NOT saying that you are crap; she really wants to incoorporate this into your love making.  You could always get her to use the vibrations on you.....

Good luck

I could see where Austin is coming from. I personally would not want a girl missing out on pleasure. However it seems to me that after you have had sex with her that she wants to use her vibe and use it for everytime they have sex and this will dent most mens ego. If it will help, my suggestion to you Austin is use it during forplay and bring her to an orgasm before you have sex and have it that you use it on her and not she use it on herself.  That way you are in control and she may then be sensitive enough to orgasm with you inside her.

You must understand Austin that most women have trouble experiencing orgasm through intercourse and a good idea is to discuss with each other what you both need. Do not be afraid to open up with her and by communicating with each other you will both learn what works in your lovemaking.

Hi AustinAzathoth, I hope you do not mind a woman opinion on your post, I own a vibrator and have never seen it as a substitute for a Mans penis, for several reasons here are a few intercourse is so good for us on all levels the physical closeness, caresses, kisses, stroaking and talking to one another, there is nothing finer in this world than the Man you love deep inside you holding you close, a vibrator is for fun togeather, or if a woman is alone say her man works away or is on nights, perhaps your woman is trying to stimulate her "G. Spot" and this can be done acurately with a vibrator{ I know lol} . try diffrent sex positions so she can have a G. Spot orgasm, also please try not to see the vibrator as a threat its not. Love Sekmet xxx