I cum to quick how do I not cum to too quick and be better in bed for my wife help ?

I used to have that problem when younger. I often came too quick and could not please my wife. I can't tell you if it is because I am older or my body changed, but with a lot more and innovative foreplay, she is more prepared, better lubricated. She is closer to a climax and probably cums earlier.

So my advise is spend more time stimulating her before you have intercourse and if she is not wet enough use a lubricant. The whole experience will be so much better for both if the games and playing prepares her for the ultimate.

Good luck, hope it helps.

We have tryed lot's of things and I,m just not sure if I,m doing the sex right and making it good for her , we have talk about games and role play and stuff and we have talk about 3 sum thing too but I just think I,m crap

Oh boy my friend your opinion of yourself inhibits you to perform. Every man has the problem that he fears of failing, he is stressed and the more you fret over if it will work this time, the more you will fail. Guaranteed! I have no advise in how to relax and ban the worries from your head. But if you go into it, free of fear of failing, I am sure you find a difference. I have never experienced a 3sum but if your partner is not completely behind it as you have to be, i am sure the emotional baggage can be long and damaging. Try games, role play or simply a light bondage. Again, it is to stimulate her, get her to the point where she is so ready for your penetration, so wound up and almost there that A: she is wet enough and B, it wont take long. Still try lubrication so your contact is not as stimulating and maybe using a condom reduces your sensation to the point that she can cum first.

But most of all, try to ban the worries from your brain and go into it not thinking of your failure but how every touch makes her feel, every kiss on every part of her body makes her reach a new high. Maybe you find my blog on light bondage, read it and try.

Again best of luck