okay, believe it or not, I'm new to oral sex.  Not a prude, just haven't been fortunate to be with the right man.  Now have a man that is wonderful, gentle, patient, loving and very understanding of my inexperience.  I have pleasured him a few times now and he very much enjoyed it in spite of my bit of fumbling.  I admit I enjoyed it too - the scent of his skin, his taste, the lovely intimacy of it all - but mostly giving him intense pleasure.  I am not at all turned off by any of it but I have always had a problem (even with just brushing my teeth) of a fairly sensitive gag reflex.  I know that the majority of the sensation for a man is in the head of the penis, but I would like to feel comfortable to take him a little deeper into my mouth without worring about gagging.  Are there any pointers or alternative positions that could aleviate this problem? 

I would recommend reading "How to Blow Him Away - How To Give Him Mind-Blowing Oral Sex" by Marcy Michaels and Marie Desalle.   Reading about it is a good way to get started.  Good luck! 

Great book! Fantastic post. I'm glad someone is sharing. I would suggest the art of a good blow job is more then how far you can get him in your mouth. Use your fingers. Light anal play will stimulate him faster. Your motions should alternate from quick to slow. Make sure to use your hands. Stroke him. Run your finger nails around his balls. Make sure you use your cheeks, teeth and tongue to keep him upright.

I hope this helps.

I have a really sensitive gag reflex too and with practice i've learned to go alittle deeper without making myself sick. Give it time and just go alittle further each time.  Also, use you hands on the part you can't take in.  That extends the feelings alittle.  Good Luck!

Ice is another big player in oral. I can understand how some women can gag. I've known women that can drink cum like a soft drink. It's not always about swallowing. If you use your fingers, a toy, lots of saliva and work the penis you can get most healthy men to cum within 3-5 minutes. It's fine if you don't swallow ladies. It's not a must every time. 

Ask your lover to go down on you after he cums inside you. If he wears a condom, take it off him and spread his love juice on your belly. Rub the cum on your inner thighs and ask him to make love to you again this time starting with kissing. All the way down your body. Making him taste himself. Any good man would not even hesitate. Just like if he asked you to taste yourself after you came. Finger yourself, use a toy. Cum and then take two fingers and enjoy yourself. It will turn him on to no end. 

Our problem is we don't think past our comfort zone. We think the same old is fine. If your happy with that great. I hope your not because your here on LG. you want to learn. You want to experiment. Then do it!