I know this is not a story but since nobody posts in this room I figured I would.

Do you talk to your partner? Show him/her where to put his/her tongue, mouth, penis etc. Do you talk about how good of a job he/she is doing? 

If not why not? I bet your afraid of a fight or he/she may not be able to take what you tell that person.

Do yourself and your partner a favor. Talk. It's all about talking.

We talk, laugh, tease, all-in-all we just have fun! We enjoy it so much but we can relax and be ourselves! I don't have to be shy or timid with my wife and she doesn't have to be with me. We can just let loose and enjoy each other! Talking is very intamate in my opinion! It shows the other how comfortable you are with them.

I give lots of compliments such as "That feel's awesome," "Great job!!!" "You're so tight!!" "Slam down baby!" etc.  I think that's important. 

I couldn't agree more!!!

me and my beautiful, sexy girlfriend of 3 years, who's also 9 years older then me, do talk a bit, but sometimes, to spice things up, we play act a bit.

here's what i mean....

a few nights ago, we were at our favorite blues bar, enjoying a couple yuenglings and shots of patron........there was a guy next to my girlfriend at the bar and my girlfriend made casual conversation with him.......turns out he was new to the area and from austria.......she liked his accent, we chummed it up a bit, then he left........

later that night, while in our bed deep in passionate sex, while fucking the hell out of her, i pulled out, inserted a dildo into her screaming wet pussy and moved my thick long cock, towards her face..........i said to her, "i'm still fucking you but the austrian guys cock is in front of your mouth"........"do you want to suck it?".........."yes", she said......."i want to suck his big dick!.......i want to suck him bad"........"suck him off", i said.........and she started to give me the most incredible blowjob she ever has, as if she was in a total zone.........she began to cum and i couldn't last even a second more as i almost blew her ears off while i loaded her throat..........

omg, it was so intense, and it's completely safe because no one gets hurt and it spices things up a bit.

I totally agree with you Fletch. It's all about communication in and out of bed.

I very much enjoyed talking to my lover and him to me. i think a hint for all the guys that love oral (and who doesn't?) that one of the keys maybe complimenting and encouraging her. if she knew how exciting it is for you and how wonderful it feels...well you might find her doing it more often. so speak up, tell her how great it is, and who knows..you might find shes open to new things and more passionate and thrilled to be loving on you..just my thoughts. try it..you'll like it, and so will she!

Thanks for the tips Lacey, I will have to remember that next time.

Sure, we talk a lot during sex. Especially when trying new postures, we both like to make sex more comfortable and exciting!

Depends if I've got me mobile phone with me.

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