Pearl ,  i think there is something kinda sexy , after a  landscaping project comes to fruition, and  she  is happy  there is a little flirting just to see how tired i might be --  mmhmm,,     to share the housework  then each other is far more rewarding ..

not sure that with-holding sex or even love  is great for long term satisfaction, but then some like it like that - being  domineered  in the sexual relationship is power , and some men prefer -that way or the other way around  ,,    is also i guess  a huge  trust  that it isnt taken for granted

sleep calleth

Hey Pearl, and all other LG'ers, when it comes to household chores I like to think that I do my fair share, yes the outdoor ones - washing the car, mowing the grass, are my responsibility, but I have no aversion to picking up the iron or unloading the dishwasher. Surely the key to a happy life & relationship is to get all chores done with maximum efficiency - this then gives so much more time for relaxtation and loving.....

Hopefully this is along others thought lines

TB x

Poor Swiss. But I bet you are getting more than what you are telling us.

I hope what Pearlthong is saying is not installed for me when I finally find my love, but that is not to say I would not help out around the house. Though I have read that if a bloke does say do the dishes (I mean on his own initiative) then his partner at times will find it a turn on and gives him more chance of getting some action in the bedroom. But they were not implying what Pearlthong is talking about.