This one is to some (but not all by any means) male members.
I’ve been a member of LG for some time now and during that time I’ve encountered, and often made very good friends with some wonderful female members. But some comments I hear from my friends show that some male members lack good manners, common courtesies and respect. Instead when they try Live Chatting with female members they go straight for the anatomical approach which does not usually go down well. And the same happens in messages. After all, who gives a photo to a total stranger about whom you know nothing at all?! It is a real turn-off (and sometimes scary) for many females. Other females will simply laugh-off such approaches as ‘another inadequate male fool who can’t get his leg-over for real’!
Call me old-fashioned, call me soft but the reality is that most females, not only the younger or more outgoing members, don't want to be treated as a piece of flesh; or worse still, someone to be taken advantage of. They like to be respected for who they are and what they believe and they like to be ‘discovered’ through interesting discussion. They don’t want basic ‘tits and pussy questions’ (excuse my directness ladies) but instead they prefer a more subtle approach and a bit more ‘je ne sais q’uoi’.
The female psyche is not always the same as the rampant male and some male members should recognise this. The “wham, bang, thank you mam approach” can be a loser, a real turn-off, not a winner.
I realise that most men who read this will not be the offenders but if you are one, please take note because if you don’t, you won’t gain many female friends here. But I fear that like so many of Pearlthong’s blogs, this one will have to be repeated at regular intervals!
