Title: How do you settle an argument?
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Blog Entry: How does each individual settle an argument/disagreement themselves and his/her partner? Do you instantly make up? Go for days without words? No phone calls? Sleep in separate bedrooms? Is it you who make the first move to make up? Is it him/her? What do you usually do? I'm the type of person who cant hold my anger inside. As I get disappointed, I talk, mostly say things that I later regret. I dont get violent. But I find it that as soon as I finish my lecture of a lifetime (lol) my stress is gone. My partner on the other hand is just the total opposite. He'd be quiet about it, always keeps it inside, and doesnt vent like I do. But it keeps him troubled for days. I'm usually the one who initiates making up after an argument. Generally because I feel bad at all the things I said. To be honest, I've tried to be like my husband. Be quiet about something that bothers me. I just cant. It just doesnt feel right until I say something about it! I guess I'm used to expressing myself in all forms, good or bad.
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